一忍再忍就是傻！ 听到心痛的话  今天 勇敢的走下去。因为，我已 做人无须太忍让， 忍让过分，别人只会当你傻！ 忍让，是因为宽容、大度， 但那并不能代表， 你可以觉得理所当然。 Education rejuvenates the country, or science and technology rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country with talented people and so on, but all cannot do without education. Obviously, how important education is in a country's construction and rejuvenation is absolutely a universal truth.    However, what is China's education like? I am not an expert or scholar. Of course, the purpose of this article is not to discuss the whole picture of education. I just want to make a small comparison between Chinese and western education and look for the clue of rejuvenating the country.    There are many characteristics and differences between Chinese and western education, of course, there are also some similarities or differences, because education, after all, starts with children and must have some commonalities.  However, the differences between Chinese and western education are still major. Perhaps the most striking one is:    China's education attaches importance to rationality and even propriety, while western education attaches importance to individuality and even to nature, so the gap arises.  I describe it as " goat sex education" for Chinese education, and " wolf sex education" for western education ( wolf sex culture seems to be very fashionable in enterprise construction in recent years ).  Although this analogy is not appropriate and I do not appreciate it, let's use it as a vivid bridge to understand the problem.  Because of the characteristics of sheep and wolf, the relationship between sheep and wolf is too simple and clear, so there is no need to say more.  Just think about the story of Wolf and Lamb, which has been deeply rooted in people's hearts since childhood.    Why is it said that Chinese education is like " sheep's nature" because the Chinese people have been deeply educated, nurtured and influenced by traditional Confucian culture since childhood. They speak of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith, cultivate one's morality and nurture one's nature, and even go along with it.  It is impossible to talk about how to win the hearts of the people or even how to rule the people without human nature education or resistance education.  Therefore, no matter how many people there are, most of them have become good citizens, obedient citizens and even slaves.  Looking at the classic works inherited from China, one can see at a glance: Tao Te Ching, Analects of Confucius, Book of Changes, University, Doctrine of the Mean, Zeng Guofan's Family Letters and so on, all of which are basically poems, books, rites and music, and dealing with people.  One can see this by thinking about the worship of " rare stupidity" which is regarded as a motto by many people in China. Although many scholars and even high-ranking officials and elites regard it as if it were a fool, there are few people who can really be a fool. I'm afraid most of them have really wasted their lives in a muddle.  ( Article Reading Network: www.sanwen.net )    However, western education seems to be " wolf - like" because it emphasizes more on individuality, subjectivity, resistance consciousness, master consciousness, autonomy and even aggressiveness, which is completely opposite to China.  Therefore, western countries have a rich history of aggression, while eastern countries such as China have more history of aggression.  Looking at the classics of western classics, one can see at a glance: utopia, the spirit of law, the origin of species, the theory of human nature, even including the theory of war, my struggle, and so on. of course, there are also the bible, capital, the communist manifesto, and so on, which are quite different from Chinese culture.    People who grew up under this kind of " goat sex" education did not see much difference during the civil war. Even sheep became wolves.  However, once there is a war with western countries, it will be clear that the problem arises: sheep or sheep, wolf or wolf.  How can sheep beat wolves? Even if there are more sheep, they are also the food of wolves. Why are they called lambs to be slaughtered? They are the products of Chinese education.  However, sheep will not be sheep forever, or sheep eaten by wolves will not be sheep again after they are regenerated.    Having experienced too many war lessons instead of book education, the Chinese have awakened and can neither be wolves nor sheep. If the Chinese want to be dragons, they can be said to be " gods" that no animal can defeat.  It is neither as ferocious as a wolf nor as submissive as a sheep. It is free to fly into the sea and is superior to the others.  Flying apsaras can soar and swim into the sea, becoming the only " oriental dragon" in the world.  Think about it, what would happen if it were 1.4 billion sheep and what would happen if it were 14 dragons?    However, the strange phenomenon is that education in China is " goat - like", but it is only aimed at children, and educators are often " wolf - like", including children's parents and teachers. are there not some successful education cases of " tiger parents"?  However, western education is " wolf - like" and also aimed at children. instead, educators are often " sheep - like", or flexible and equal. even when children are treated, they are treated like adults with equal democracy and respect for human nature and nature.    In fact, Chinese education is far from simple " goat sex" education. Starting from " sage Confucius", for more than 2,000 years, Chinese education can be said to be rich and profound, absolutely no worse than western education, and even much higher. All western education concepts are not uncommon in the education system of our ancestors. Otherwise, how can so many " magnificent" national heroes be cultivated, and how can so many " better - than - strolling" outstanding Chinese children be born? It is because our descendants cannot thoroughly study the education methods and ideological essence of our ancestors, and the methods are improper.  It can even be said that our education is the result of a serious mistake of " imitating others from the east". We want to learn from the west but have not learned the essence. On the contrary, we have lost our own excellent things. Neither fish nor fowl is often hysterical. We have turned good children into " four different images" of China, the west and the east. This is the biggest failure and the biggest sorrow.  Fortunately, many people of insight have gradually come to their senses and are returning to the right path bit by bit.    In fact, both Chinese - style education and western-style education have both advantages and disadvantages, with both advantages and disadvantages. The wisest educator should learn from each other's strong points to make up for deficiencies and eliminate disadvantages. Such education is a great blessing for children and a great blessing for the future.    This raises a serious question: what is the most important thing in national education and what is the most important thing in master consciousness education, that is, to be a good master instead of waiting to be a slave.  Then there is history education ( another article ).  If you don't know and remember the history of the motherland, the tragedy will be repeated again and again.  Culture, knowledge, science, technology and so on are all important, but no matter what, it is most important to have no sense of ownership, because if one loses the sense of ownership, the country will lose the country and the people will lose the people, which will be the object of insult and damage.  Master consciousness is not only manifested in the national economy and people's livelihood, but also on the international stage.    Someone once said that China is a lion waking up in the east. I want to say that China is a soaring oriental dragon, flying into the sea and free.  History is wealth, please don't regard 5000 years as 70 years old. 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I looked up and saw your eyes, bright and warm.  At that moment, I felt the fall.  　　  From then on, we were inseparable.  When it was busy, I watched you laugh and laugh in the crowd and sweat profusely on the court.  When it is quiet, you can use a single car to cross the sea of flowers or sit under a tree full of green shade and listen to the flowers.  　　  You know what?  When you rescued me from that group of people who were carried away by jealousy;  When you walked the long mountain road behind my back;  When you fetch water for me and give me gifts;  When you let me sit behind your bicycle, which will never carry people.  These are great happiness that I still cannot believe.  　　  One day, I asked you why you knew me at the beginning.  You said that when I first saw you, I wanted to protect you.  I raised my mouth and smiled proudly.  　　  When gardenias bloom again, you sing under the tree with gentle and sad voice.  For the first time in your eyes, I saw something other than happiness.  I know, your song is for a girl, that's not me.  　　  Gardenias were unbridled and defeated behind me. You didn't see the dim look in my eyes.  　　  The seasons are dry and the flowers bloom in spring.  　　  You are still singing affectionate songs, and I am still the wrong listener.  　　  We jointly deduce a story that is not a story.  　　  When the last gardenia withered that year, you suddenly asked me what you would do if I left.  I said, I will wait for you to come back.  　　  You smiled, the smile was full of heavy mist.  　　  You put your hand on my head and said, girl, you don't have to wait.  　　  I saw the determination in your eyes.  　　  I know, everything has been irreparable.  　　  Soon after, you left.  With your sadness, I went to the place in my dream, the world I will never reach.  　　  At the airport, your white shirt still looks good.  The black backpack is hung on your shoulder, black and white.  With some kind of persistence, I will not die without regret.  　　  You smiled again, a sunny smile.  Eyes, too deep to see bottom.  　　  But I can clearly see that there is a reflection of my face, desolate and beautiful.  　　  You said to me with pity and worry, girl, you know, don't wait for me.  I shook my head desperately, tears trickling down.  　　  You wiped my tears and said, girl, be happy, be happy.  This is my last blessing to you, be obedient!  　　  Say that finish, you also don't back to go.  I heard the sound of my heart being torn apart. The great pain could not be relieved. I cried for a long time and shed tears from now on.  　　  You just disappeared from my world, you made all my beautiful dreams break like glass.  I am crazy about your news, but no one knows where you went.  　　  You came to me in summer and left in summer.  Just like the wind, it passed and disappeared.  　　  But I can't go back to the origin.  　　  I don't remember how many times gardenias opened after you left. I don't know which one you picked for me.  I can't do what you say. Without you, how can I be happy?  This sea of flowers is still as beautiful as it was at the beginning, only without your smile.  　　  And the girl waiting for her lover to return under the tree.    不是所有的让步都能得到称赞， 别人只会得寸进尺。 不是所有的包容都能换来真心。      总政，创作人，亮剑，这三个词语就像三个惊雷一样，一下震得林半山目瞪口呆。 趁着这个空隙，陈北冥扫了一眼北极音像的经理林半山的办公室。 办公室很大，四十多个平方，里面的设计很有意思，假山，水塘，金鱼，还有大盆的盆栽植物，人在里面就像置身于一个小公园。 除此之外的陈设倒是不多，一张办公桌，一套会客用的沙发。办公桌后面有一个书柜，书柜里摆满了书，但看得出来，那些书并不是装饰用的，很多书看起来都有点旧了，边角都有了磨损。 东西虽然不多，但很讲究，办公室和书柜都是高端实木，沙发虽然只是布艺沙发，但应该是顶尖设计师的作品。 而站在陈北冥面前的这位林半山也很有个性，身材不高，一米七五左右，但十分结实，像是经常锻炼的那一类，浑身上下都散发着强壮的气息。 眼睛大而有神，看人的时候喜欢直视。 身上的衣服简洁大方，但陈北冥如果没有记错的话，这应该是首都比较出名的服装设计师佟夏的作品，要价绝对在五万以上。 “陈先生，请坐。”回过神后，林半山连忙用手指了指沙发，脸上的笑容第一次真诚起来。 看来陈北冥之前给出的那几个信息非常有用。 “谢谢。”陈北冥笑了笑，然后大方坐下。 “陈先生喝点什么茶？” “绿茶就行。”陈北冥道。 林半山于是扭头对那个女孩道：“去泡两杯茶过来。” 两个人面向而坐。 陈北冥开门见山道：“林先生，我今天来，是想跟你谈谈《你看你看月亮的脸》这张专辑的合作事宜的，林先生应该听过我们这张专辑里面的歌了吧？。” “听过。”林半山并不否认。 “那林先生应该知道，这张专辑一定能大卖的，是吧？” “这我可就不知道了。”林半山如实回答：“我承认专辑里的歌还不错，但陈先生应该知道，歌好并不代表销量一定就好，是吧？” 陈北冥点了点头。 林半山说的是实话，而且不得不承认，这样的例子很多很多，甚至数不胜数，叫好不叫座的专辑，不说这里了，就是地球上每年都会有很多张的。 之所以造成如此情况，其实原因也不复杂，那些专辑虽然很好，但并不符合大众的审美，换句话说，那些歌并不是老百姓喜欢听的歌。 但《你看你看月亮的脸》这张专辑却不是这样的，这张专辑上市立即就在台湾掀起了抢购风潮，小小的台湾就至少卖了五十万，全球销量不少于五百万，这样的数据已经说明，这张专辑是老百姓喜欢的专辑。 不过这些东西林半山是不可能相信的，所以，陈北冥沉吟了一下，开口道：“林先生，那你看这样好不好，如果我们这张专辑第一个月的销量达不到一百万，那么，卖不出去的那些，张云裳小姐所在的公司全部回购。” “全部回购？”林半山一愣，回过神后，他眯着眼睛看着陈北冥。 这个陈北冥要么就是疯了，要么就是故意在玩我？ 林半山心中暗忖。 恰这个时候，那个女孩把泡好的茶递给了他，所以他悠哉悠哉的喝了一口茶，“不过我有一个条件，我希望北极音像能完全按照我们制定的营销和宣传方案进行营销和宣传，而且，必须用北极音像最大的力度。” 陈北冥一点一点的把自己的想法抛了出来。 这么优厚的条件——成功了能赚取不菲的利润但失败了什么风险都不用承当，这样的条件林半山根本无法拒绝，所以，两个人很快就达成了一份口头协议。 “林先生，合作愉快。”陈北冥伸出手。 “合作愉快！”林半山也伸出手。 这之后，两个人这才又坐了下来继续闲聊。 林半山抬起头看着陈北冥问：“陈先生，你就真的不怕血本无归吗？” 陈北冥笑了笑：“我当然怕血本无归，但我知道，这张专辑不会。” “不会？”林半山愣了一下，然后忍不住笑了出来：“陈先生，恕我直言，张云裳这个歌手之前从未发行过一张专辑，在歌坛上一点儿名气也没有，而且，她的风格也不是现在最流行的青春动感风格，作为在音像行业里摸爬滚打了差不多十年的老江湖，我觉得，你只怕有些过于乐观了！” 陈北冥抬起头：“那.....要不咱们打个赌？” “打赌？”林半山一愣，然后很快笑了起来：“好啊，说实话我还真的不信你们这张专辑能大红大紫？ 当容忍换不来感激， 当让步得不到理解， 一片真心被辜负， 剩下的全是寒心。 忍让千万要理智， 忍让过多，让人过分贪婪； 忍让过度，让心分外失衡。 会让步的人，并不糊涂， 忍让背后隐藏的是委屈。 为了满足别人的私欲， 把泪水藏起，把笑容强挤。      总政，创作人，亮剑，这三个词语就像三个惊雷一样，一下震得林半山目瞪口呆。 趁着这个空隙，陈北冥扫了一眼北极音像的经理林半山的办公室。 办公室很大，四十多个平方，里面的设计很有意思，假山，水塘，金鱼，还有大盆的盆栽植物，人在里面就像置身于一个小公园。 除此之外的陈设倒是不多，一张办公桌，一套会客用的沙发。办公桌后面有一个书柜，书柜里摆满了书，但看得出来，那些书并不是装饰用的，很多书看起来都有点旧了，边角都有了磨损。 东西虽然不多，但很讲究，办公室和书柜都是高端实木，沙发虽然只是布艺沙发，但应该是顶尖设计师的作品。 而站在陈北冥面前的这位林半山也很有个性，身材不高，一米七五左右，但十分结实，像是经常锻炼的那一类，浑身上下都散发着强壮的气息。 眼睛大而有神，看人的时候喜欢直视。 身上的衣服简洁大方，但陈北冥如果没有记错的话，这应该是首都比较出名的服装设计师佟夏的作品，要价绝对在五万以上。 “陈先生，请坐。”回过神后，林半山连忙用手指了指沙发，脸上的笑容第一次真诚起来。 看来陈北冥之前给出的那几个信息非常有用。 “谢谢。”陈北冥笑了笑，然后大方坐下。 “陈先生喝点什么茶？” “绿茶就行。”陈北冥道。 林半山于是扭头对那个女孩道：“去泡两杯茶过来。” 两个人面向而坐。 陈北冥开门见山道：“林先生，我今天来，是想跟你谈谈《你看你看月亮的脸》这张专辑的合作事宜的，林先生应该听过我们这张专辑里面的歌了吧？。” “听过。”林半山并不否认。 “那林先生应该知道，这张专辑一定能大卖的，是吧？” “这我可就不知道了。”林半山如实回答：“我承认专辑里的歌还不错，但陈先生应该知道，歌好并不代表销量一定就好，是吧？” 陈北冥点了点头。 林半山说的是实话，而且不得不承认，这样的例子很多很多，甚至数不胜数，叫好不叫座的专辑，不说这里了，就是地球上每年都会有很多张的。 之所以造成如此情况，其实原因也不复杂，那些专辑虽然很好，但并不符合大众的审美，换句话说，那些歌并不是老百姓喜欢听的歌。 但《你看你看月亮的脸》这张专辑却不是这样的，这张专辑上市立即就在台湾掀起了抢购风潮，小小的台湾就至少卖了五十万，全球销量不少于五百万，这样的数据已经说明，这张专辑是老百姓喜欢的专辑。 不过这些东西林半山是不可能相信的，所以，陈北冥沉吟了一下，开口道：“林先生，那你看这样好不好，如果我们这张专辑第一个月的销量达不到一百万，那么，卖不出去的那些，张云裳小姐所在的公司全部回购。” “全部回购？”林半山一愣，回过神后，他眯着眼睛看着陈北冥。 这个陈北冥要么就是疯了，要么就是故意在玩我？ 林半山心中暗忖。 恰这个时候，那个女孩把泡好的茶递给了他，所以他悠哉悠哉的喝了一口茶，“不过我有一个条件，我希望北极音像能完全按照我们制定的营销和宣传方案进行营销和宣传，而且，必须用北极音像最大的力度。” 陈北冥一点一点的把自己的想法抛了出来。 这么优厚的条件——成功了能赚取不菲的利润但失败了什么风险都不用承当，这样的条件林半山根本无法拒绝，所以，两个人很快就达成了一份口头协议。 “林先生，合作愉快。”陈北冥伸出手。 “合作愉快！”林半山也伸出手。 这之后，两个人这才又坐了下来继续闲聊。 林半山抬起头看着陈北冥问：“陈先生，你就真的不怕血本无归吗？” 陈北冥笑了笑：“我当然怕血本无归，但我知道，这张专辑不会。” “不会？”林半山愣了一下，然后忍不住笑了出来：“陈先生，恕我直言，张云裳这个歌手之前从未发行过一张专辑，在歌坛上一点儿名气也没有，而且，她的风格也不是现在最流行的青春动感风格，作为在音像行业里摸爬滚打了差不多十年的老江湖，我觉得，你只怕有些过于乐观了！” 陈北冥抬起头：“那.....要不咱们打个赌？” “打赌？”林半山一愣，然后很快笑了起来：“好啊，说实话我还真的不信你们这张专辑能大红大紫？ 忍让， 看起来容易，做起来太难。 忍让不是所有人都值得， 忍对人，会开心， 让错人，会伤心。 一再的容忍，会失去原则； 一再的忍让，会没了底线。 忍让有节制，才不负重； 忍让有分寸，才不后悔。 谁真谁假，心里明白。 忍让，是有底线的！ 忍让，是有限度的。 喜欢的，转！ ——听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱听到心疼的话懂你想你感恩你谢谢远方的各位朋友来自神州各地的关爱—— 想听更多我的故事吗? 听到心痛的话 请长按二维码"识别"并关注 喜欢请转发，爱我就点看过↓↓ 阅读原文 微信扫一扫 关注该公众号 更多内容vip可查看