没人真的傻，只是不愿说而已。 让人心痛的话  4天前                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       这世界上，没有人真的傻， 只是不想点破而已。 当别人为利益相对时， 你忍让了，他们说你傻， 你争取了，他们说你贪。 当别人有求与你时， 你帮了，他们觉得应该， 你不帮，他们说你无情。 Education rejuvenates the country, or science and technology rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country with talented people and so on, but all cannot do without education. Obviously, how important education is in a country's construction and rejuvenation is absolutely a universal truth.    However, what is China's education like? I am not an expert or scholar. Of course, the purpose of this article is not to discuss the whole picture of education. I just want to make a small comparison between Chinese and western education and look for the clue of rejuvenating the country.    There are many characteristics and differences between Chinese and western education, of course, there are also some similarities or differences, because education, after all, starts with children and must have some commonalities.  However, the differences between Chinese and western education are still major. Perhaps the most striking one is:    China's education attaches importance to rationality and even propriety, while western education attaches importance to individuality and even to nature, so the gap arises.  I describe it as " goat sex education" for Chinese education, and " wolf sex education" for western education ( wolf sex culture seems to be very fashionable in enterprise construction in recent years ).  Although this analogy is not appropriate and I do not appreciate it, let's use it as a vivid bridge to understand the problem.  Because of the characteristics of sheep and wolf, the relationship between sheep and wolf is too simple and clear, so there is no need to say more.  Just think about the story of Wolf and Lamb, which has been deeply rooted in people's hearts since childhood.    Why is it said that Chinese education is like " sheep's nature" because the Chinese people have been deeply educated, nurtured and influenced by traditional Confucian culture since childhood. They speak of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith, cultivate one's morality and nurture one's nature, and even go along with it.  It is impossible to talk about how to win the hearts of the people or even how to rule the people without human nature education or resistance education.  Therefore, no matter how many people there are, most of them have become good citizens, obedient citizens and even slaves.  Looking at the classic works inherited from China, one can see at a glance: Tao Te Ching, Analects of Confucius, Book of Changes, University, Doctrine of the Mean, Zeng Guofan's Family Letters and so on, all of which are basically poems, books, rites and music, and dealing with people.  One can see this by thinking about the worship of " rare stupidity" which is regarded as a motto by many people in China. Although many scholars and even high-ranking officials and elites regard it as if it were a fool, there are few people who can really be a fool. I'm afraid most of them have really wasted their lives in a muddle.  ( Article Reading Network: www.sanwen.net )    However, western education seems to be " wolf - like" because it emphasizes more on individuality, subjectivity, resistance consciousness, master consciousness, autonomy and even aggressiveness, which is completely opposite to China.  Therefore, western countries have a rich history of aggression, while eastern countries such as China have more history of aggression.  Looking at the classics of western classics, one can see at a glance: utopia, the spirit of law, the origin of species, the theory of human nature, even including the theory of war, my struggle, and so on. of course, there are also the bible, capital, the communist manifesto, and so on, which are quite different from Chinese culture.    People who grew up under this kind of " goat sex" education did not see much difference during the civil war. Even sheep became wolves.  However, once there is a war with western countries, it will be clear that the problem arises: sheep or sheep, wolf or wolf.  How can sheep beat wolves? Even if there are more sheep, they are also the food of wolves. Why are they called lambs to be slaughtered? They are the products of Chinese education.  However, sheep will not be sheep forever, or sheep eaten by wolves will not be sheep again after they are regenerated.    Having experienced too many war lessons instead of book education, the Chinese have awakened and can neither be wolves nor sheep. If the Chinese want to be dragons, they can be said to be " gods" that no animal can defeat.  It is neither as ferocious as a wolf nor as submissive as a sheep. It is free to fly into the sea and is superior to the others.  Flying apsaras can soar and swim into the sea, becoming the only " oriental dragon" in the world.  Think about it, what would happen if it were 1.4 billion sheep and what would happen if it were 14 dragons?    However, the strange phenomenon is that education in China is " goat - like", but it is only aimed at children, and educators are often " wolf - like", including children's parents and teachers. are there not some successful education cases of " tiger parents"?  However, western education is " wolf - like" and also aimed at children. instead, educators are often " sheep - like", or flexible and equal. even when children are treated, they are treated like adults with equal democracy and respect for human nature and nature.    In fact, Chinese education is far from simple " goat sex" education. Starting from " sage Confucius", for more than 2,000 years, Chinese education can be said to be rich and profound, absolutely no worse than western education, and even much higher. All western education concepts are not uncommon in the education system of our ancestors. Otherwise, how can so many " magnificent" national heroes be cultivated, and how can so many " better - than - strolling" outstanding Chinese children be born? It is because our descendants cannot thoroughly study the education methods and ideological essence of our ancestors, and the methods are improper.  It can even be said that our education is the result of a serious mistake of " imitating others from the east". We want to learn from the west but have not learned the essence. On the contrary, we have lost our own excellent things. Neither fish nor fowl is often hysterical. We have turned good children into " four different images" of China, the west and the east. This is the biggest failure and the biggest sorrow.  Fortunately, many people of insight have gradually come to their senses and are returning to the right path bit by bit.    In fact, both Chinese - style education and western-style education have both advantages and disadvantages, with both advantages and disadvantages. The wisest educator should learn from each other's strong points to make up for deficiencies and eliminate disadvantages. Such education is a great blessing for children and a great blessing for the future.    This raises a serious question: what is the most important thing in national education and what is the most important thing in master consciousness education, that is, to be a good master instead of waiting to be a slave.  Then there is history education ( another article ).  If you don't know and remember the history of the motherland, the tragedy will be repeated again and again.  Culture, knowledge, science, technology and so on are all important, but no matter what, it is most important to have no sense of ownership, because if one loses the sense of ownership, the country will lose the country and the people will lose the people, which will be the object of insult and damage.  Master consciousness is not only manifested in the national economy and people's livelihood, but also on the international stage.    Someone once said that China is a lion waking up in the east. I want to say that China is a soaring oriental dragon, flying into the sea and free.  History is wealth, please don't regard 5000 years as 70 years old. China is the only country in the world that can and should be able to combine greatness and strength. ????? ??? ???? ????? ?? ?? ????? ??? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ?? ????? ????? ????? ???. ???? ??????? ???? ?????? ???????? ???????? ??? ??? ?? ???????? ????? ??????? ??? ????. ???? ?????? ?? ??? ?? ????? ??? ??????? ????????? ???? ???? ????? ??? ????????. ??????? ???? ?????? ???? ????? ????? ??? ???? ????? ?????????. ??? ?? ??? ????? ???? ???? ???? ?????????? ??? ????? ??????? ???? ?????, ???. ???????? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ??? ????? ????? ?????? ???? ????????? ???? ????? ?? ?????? ?????? ?????? ?? ??? ?????? ???? ??? ????? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ???? ????? ???????? ????? ????????. ??? ???? ?????? ????? ?????? ?? ???????? ???? ?? ????? ????? ??? ???????? ????? ?????? ?????? ??? ?????. ?????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ??????. ???? ??? ??? ??????? ???????? ???? ??? ??? ??????? ??????? ?? ?? ???? ?????? ???????. ??? ??? ???? ????? ??????? ?? ????? ?? ?????? ???? ??? ???? ???????. ???? ???????? ???????? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ?? ???? ????? ?????. ????? ?????? ??????? '????? ????'? ???? ??? ?????? ????? ???? ???? ????? ????? ????? ????? ?? ??? ???? ?????. ??? ?? ????? ??? ????? ??????? ????????? ??????? ????? ?????????? ??????? ??? ???????? ???????? ???? ???? ??? ????? ????. ???? ????? ??? ????? ???? ?????? ???? ??? ?????? ??????. That year, I was sitting behind your bicycle with the wind blowing in my ear, detailing your promise to me. I smiled and slept on your shoulder.  　　  In early summer, your smile is like tearing sunshine, dazzling and dazzling.  In your angelic face, I lost my sight. The gardenia behind me melted your pure white shirt into that piece of Xue Hai.  You took off a gardenia and handed it to me. I dare not stretch out my hand to pick it up.  You smiled and said, nice to meet you. From now on, I will protect you.  　　  Your words and the fragrance of gardenia spread around. I looked up and saw your eyes, bright and warm.  At that moment, I felt the fall.  　　  From then on, we were inseparable.  When it was busy, I watched you laugh and laugh in the crowd and sweat profusely on the court.  When it is quiet, you can use a single car to cross the sea of flowers or sit under a tree full of green shade and listen to the flowers.  　　  You know what?  When you rescued me from that group of people who were carried away by jealousy;  When you walked the long mountain road behind my back;  When you fetch water for me and give me gifts;  When you let me sit behind your bicycle, which will never carry people.  These are great happiness that I still cannot believe.  　　  One day, I asked you why you knew me at the beginning.  You said that when I first saw you, I wanted to protect you.  I raised my mouth and smiled proudly.  　　  When gardenias bloom again, you sing under the tree with gentle and sad voice.  For the first time in your eyes, I saw something other than happiness.  I know, your song is for a girl, that's not me.  　　  Gardenias were unbridled and defeated behind me. You didn't see the dim look in my eyes.  　　  The seasons are dry and the flowers bloom in spring.  　　  You are still singing affectionate songs, and I am still the wrong listener.  　　  We jointly deduce a story that is not a story.  　　  When the last gardenia withered that year, you suddenly asked me what you would do if I left.  I said, I will wait for you to come back.  　　  You smiled, the smile was full of heavy mist.  　　  You put your hand on my head and said, girl, you don't have to wait.  　　  I saw the determination in your eyes.  　　  I know, everything has been irreparable.  　　  Soon after, you left.  With your sadness, I went to the place in my dream, the world I will never reach.  　　  At the airport, your white shirt still looks good.  The black backpack is hung on your shoulder, black and white.  With some kind of persistence, I will not die without regret.  　　  You smiled again, a sunny smile.  Eyes, too deep to see bottom.  　　  But I can clearly see that there is a reflection of my face, desolate and beautiful.  　　  You said to me with pity and worry, girl, you know, don't wait for me.  I shook my head desperately, tears trickling down.  　　  You wiped my tears and said, girl, be happy, be happy.  This is my last blessing to you, be obedient!  　　  Say that finish, you also don't back to go.  I heard the sound of my heart being torn apart. The great pain could not be relieved. I cried for a long time and shed tears from now on.  　　  You just disappeared from my world, you made all my beautiful dreams break like glass.  I am crazy about your news, but no one knows where you went.  　　  You came to me in summer and left in summer.  Just like the wind, it passed and disappeared.  　　  But I can't go back to the origin.  　　  I don't remember how many times gardenias opened after you left. I don't know which one you picked for me.  I can't do what you say. Without you, how can I be happy?  This sea of flowers is still as beautiful as it was at the beginning, only without your smile.  　　  And the girl waiting for her lover to return under the tree.    Education rejuvenates the country, or science and technology rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country with talented people and so on, but all cannot do without education. Obviously, how important education is in a country's construction and rejuvenation is absolutely a universal truth.    However, what is China's education like? I am not an expert or scholar. Of course, the purpose of this article is not to discuss the whole picture of education. I just want to make a small comparison between Chinese and western education and look for the clue of rejuvenating the country.    There are many characteristics and differences between Chinese and western education, of course, there are also some similarities or differences, because education, after all, starts with children and must have some commonalities.  However, the differences between Chinese and western education are still major. Perhaps the most striking one is:    China's education attaches importance to rationality and even propriety, while western education attaches importance to individuality and even to nature, so the gap arises.  I describe it as " goat sex education" for Chinese education, and " wolf sex education" for western education ( wolf sex culture seems to be very fashionable in enterprise construction in recent years ).  Although this analogy is not appropriate and I do not appreciate it, let's use it as a vivid bridge to understand the problem.  Because of the characteristics of sheep and wolf, the relationship between sheep and wolf is too simple and clear, so there is no need to say more.  Just think about the story of Wolf and Lamb, which has been deeply rooted in people's hearts since childhood.    Why is it said that Chinese education is like " sheep's nature" because the Chinese people have been deeply educated, nurtured and influenced by traditional Confucian culture since childhood. They speak of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith, cultivate one's morality and nurture one's nature, and even go along with it.  It is impossible to talk about how to win the hearts of the people or even how to rule the people without human nature education or resistance education.  Therefore, no matter how many people there are, most of them have become good citizens, obedient citizens and even slaves.  Looking at the classic works inherited from China, one can see at a glance: Tao Te Ching, Analects of Confucius, Book of Changes, University, Doctrine of the Mean, Zeng Guofan's Family Letters and so on, all of which are basically poems, books, rites and music, and dealing with people.  One can see this by thinking about the worship of " rare stupidity" which is regarded as a motto by many people in China. Although many scholars and even high-ranking officials and elites regard it as if it were a fool, there are few people who can really be a fool. I'm afraid most of them have really wasted their lives in a muddle.  ( Article Reading Network: www.sanwen.net )    However, western education seems to be " wolf - like" because it emphasizes more on individuality, subjectivity, resistance consciousness, master consciousness, autonomy and even aggressiveness, which is completely opposite to China.  Therefore, western countries have a rich history of aggression, while eastern countries such as China have more history of aggression.  Looking at the classics of western classics, one can see at a glance: utopia, the spirit of law, the origin of species, the theory of human nature, even including the theory of war, my struggle, and so on. of course, there are also the bible, capital, the communist manifesto, and so on, which are quite different from Chinese culture.    People who grew up under this kind of " goat sex" education did not see much difference during the civil war. Even sheep became wolves.  However, once there is a war with western countries, it will be clear that the problem arises: sheep or sheep, wolf or wolf.  How can sheep beat wolves? Even if there are more sheep, they are also the food of wolves. Why are they called lambs to be slaughtered? They are the products of Chinese education.  However, sheep will not be sheep forever, or sheep eaten by wolves will not be sheep again after they are regenerated.    Having experienced too many war lessons instead of book education, the Chinese have awakened and can neither be wolves nor sheep. If the Chinese want to be dragons, they can be said to be " gods" that no animal can defeat.  It is neither as ferocious as a wolf nor as submissive as a sheep. It is free to fly into the sea and is superior to the others.  Flying apsaras can soar and swim into the sea, becoming the only " oriental dragon" in the world.  Think about it, what would happen if it were 1.4 billion sheep and what would happen if it were 14 dragons?    However, the strange phenomenon is that education in China is " goat - like", but it is only aimed at children, and educators are often " wolf - like", including children's parents and teachers. are there not some successful education cases of " tiger parents"?  However, western education is " wolf - like" and also aimed at children. instead, educators are often " sheep - like", or flexible and equal. even when children are treated, they are treated like adults with equal democracy and respect for human nature and nature.    In fact, Chinese education is far from simple " goat sex" education. Starting from " sage Confucius", for more than 2,000 years, Chinese education can be said to be rich and profound, absolutely no worse than western education, and even much higher. All western education concepts are not uncommon in the education system of our ancestors. Otherwise, how can so many " magnificent" national heroes be cultivated, and how can so many " better - than - strolling" outstanding Chinese children be born? It is because our descendants cannot thoroughly study the education methods and ideological essence of our ancestors, and the methods are improper.  It can even be said that our education is the result of a serious mistake of " imitating others from the east". We want to learn from the west but have not learned the essence. On the contrary, we have lost our own excellent things. Neither fish nor fowl is often hysterical. We have turned good children into " four different images" of China, the west and the east. This is the biggest failure and the biggest sorrow.  Fortunately, many people of insight have gradually come to their senses and are returning to the right path bit by bit.    In fact, both Chinese - style education and western-style education have both advantages and disadvantages, with both advantages and disadvantages. The wisest educator should learn from each other's strong points to make up for deficiencies and eliminate disadvantages. Such education is a great blessing for children and a great blessing for the future.    This raises a serious question: what is the most important thing in national education and what is the most important thing in master consciousness education, that is, to be a good master instead of waiting to be a slave.  Then there is history education ( another article ).  If you don't know and remember the history of the motherland, the tragedy will be repeated again and again.  Culture, knowledge, science, technology and so on are all important, but no matter what, it is most important to have no sense of ownership, because if one loses the sense of ownership, the country will lose the country and the people will lose the people, which will be the object of insult and damage.  Master consciousness is not only manifested in the national economy and people's livelihood, but also on the international stage.    Someone once said that China is a lion waking up in the east. I want to say that China is a soaring oriental dragon, flying into the sea and free.  History is wealth, please don't regard 5000 years as 70 years old. China is the only country in the world that can and should be able to combine greatness and strength. ????? ??? ???? ????? ?? ?? ????? ??? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ?? ????? ????? ????? ???. ???? ??????? ???? ?????? ???????? ???????? ??? ??? ?? ???????? ????? ??????? ??? ????. ???? ?????? ?? ??? ?? ????? ??? ??????? ????????? ???? ???? ????? ??? ????????. ??????? ???? ?????? ???? ????? ????? ??? ???? ????? ?????????. ??? ?? ??? ????? ???? ???? ???? ?????????? ??? ????? ??????? ???? ?????, ???. ???????? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ??? ????? ????? ?????? ???? ????????? ???? ????? ?? ?????? ?????? ?????? ?? ??? ?????? ???? ??? ????? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ???? ????? ???????? ????? ????????. ??? ???? ?????? ????? ?????? ?? ???????? ???? ?? ????? ????? ??? ???????? ????? ?????? ?????? ??? ?????. ?????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ??????. ???? ??? ??? ??????? ???????? ???? ??? ??? ??????? ??????? ?? ?? ???? ?????? ???????. ??? ??? ???? ????? ??????? ?? ????? ?? ?????? ???? ??? ???? ???????. ???? ???????? ???????? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ?? ???? ????? ?????. ????? ?????? ??????? '????? ????'? ???? ??? ?????? ????? ???? ???? ????? ????? ????? ????? ?? ??? ???? ?????. ??? ?? ????? ??? ????? ??????? ????????? ??????? ????? ?????????? ??????? ??? ???????? ???????? ???? ???? ??? ????? ????. ???? ????? ??? ????? ???? ?????? ???? ??? ?????? ??????. That year, I was sitting behind your bicycle with the wind blowing in my ear, detailing your promise to me. I smiled and slept on your shoulder.  　　  In early summer, your smile is like tearing sunshine, dazzling and dazzling.  In your angelic face, I lost my sight. The gardenia behind me melted your pure white shirt into that piece of Xue Hai.  You took off a gardenia and handed it to me. I dare not stretch out my hand to pick it up.  You smiled and said, nice to meet you. From now on, I will protect you.  　　  Your words and the fragrance of gardenia spread around. I looked up and saw your eyes, bright and warm.  At that moment, I felt the fall.  　　  From then on, we were inseparable.  When it was busy, I watched you laugh and laugh in the crowd and sweat profusely on the court.  When it is quiet, you can use a single car to cross the sea of flowers or sit under a tree full of green shade and listen to the flowers.  　　  You know what?  When you rescued me from that group of people who were carried away by jealousy;  When you walked the long mountain road behind my back;  When you fetch water for me and give me gifts;  When you let me sit behind your bicycle, which will never carry people.  These are great happiness that I still cannot believe.  　　  One day, I asked you why you knew me at the beginning.  You said that when I first saw you, I wanted to protect you.  I raised my mouth and smiled proudly.  　　  When gardenias bloom again, you sing under the tree with gentle and sad voice.  For the first time in your eyes, I saw something other than happiness.  I know, your song is for a girl, that's not me.  　　  Gardenias were unbridled and defeated behind me. You didn't see the dim look in my eyes.  　　  The seasons are dry and the flowers bloom in spring.  　　  You are still singing affectionate songs, and I am still the wrong listener.  　　  We jointly deduce a story that is not a story.  　　  When the last gardenia withered that year, you suddenly asked me what you would do if I left.  I said, I will wait for you to come back.  　　  You smiled, the smile was full of heavy mist.  　　  You put your hand on my head and said, girl, you don't have to wait.  　　  I saw the determination in your eyes.  　　  I know, everything has been irreparable.  　　  Soon after, you left.  With your sadness, I went to the place in my dream, the world I will never reach.  　　  At the airport, your white shirt still looks good.  The black backpack is hung on your shoulder, black and white.  With some kind of persistence, I will not die without regret.  　　  You smiled again, a sunny smile.  Eyes, too deep to see bottom.  　　  But I can clearly see that there is a reflection of my face, desolate and beautiful.  　　  You said to me with pity and worry, girl, you know, don't wait for me.  I shook my head desperately, tears trickling down.  　　  You wiped my tears and said, girl, be happy, be happy.  This is my last blessing to you, be obedient!  　　  Say that finish, you also don't back to go.  I heard the sound of my heart being torn apart. The great pain could not be relieved. I cried for a long time and shed tears from now on.  　　  You just disappeared from my world, you made all my beautiful dreams break like glass.  I am crazy about your news, but no one knows where you went.  　　  You came to me in summer and left in summer.  Just like the wind, it passed and disappeared.  　　  But I can't go back to the origin.  　　  I don't remember how many times gardenias opened after you left. I don't know which one you picked for me.  I can't do what you say. Without you, how can I be happy?  This sea of flowers is still as beautiful as it was at the beginning, only without your smile.  　　  And the girl waiting for her lover to return under the tree.    不管你怎么说， 别人都会议论纷纷。 不管你多么好， 总有人不喜欢你。 你改变不了处处心机的人， 也挽救不了不知感恩的心。 渐渐地学会了装傻， 不去参与那些是是非非， 不去传播那些流言蜚语。 慢慢地学会了沉默， 看在眼里的事不语， 表里不一的人不交。 那些把你当傻子利用的， 这辈子就此别过， 注定再无缘分。 那些用真心与你交往的， 就不要计较太多了， 真情可贵，用心赔罪。 人心复杂， 善良的人不该被利用， 心软的人不该被欺负。 别人不顾及你， 你又何必去在意他呢？ 你的善良，要给珍惜你的人， 你的心软，要给值得的人。 人呀，遇到事了才明白， 谁对你尽心尽力， 谁却对你熟视无睹。 谁是真的为你着急， 谁又转身躲得远远。 谁都不傻， 嘴上不说，心里明白。 只是不想计较太多， 只是想要简简单单， 活好当下的每一瞬间， 如此便好。 续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的 日子里能继续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴                                               一句心碎说说感谢各位朋友的关注和支持希望未来的日子里能继续相伴 想听更多我的故事吗? 让人心痛的话 请长按二维码识别关注 喜欢请转发，爱我就点看过↓↓ 阅读原文 微信扫一扫 关注该公众号 更多内容vip可查看